|—||Carl R. Rogers (via epikhi)|
Do not find homes in people. Do not settle in someone’s else’s skin for the way they make you feel. Plant your roots next to theirs and watch each other grow. Do not fall in love with temporary places.
And you’re the one thing I don’t hate,
You’re a cold and quiet paradise my only true escape into the night.
|—||Forever by Maggie Stiefvater (via seams-andstitches)|
I can’t stress how important this knowledge is. Once I realised that I chose whether someone’s negative vibes affected me (hell, even my own negativity), I found that life is a lot easier.
I used to drown in negativity, in a downwards spiral until I didn’t see any light in life and I didn’t see the purpose of life anymore. My therapist then taught me this, and it changed my life completely.
One of the greatest experiences of my high-school career.